Follow the dying code of chivalry and generally act like a nice guy.
If you consider yourself a good guy – or even a white knight who wants to save someand be her ‘hero’ – we have bad news for you. Medieval guys sweated their asses of to train how to ride horses and fight with swords to impress women.
And if this is your sole intention of saving someone, it 95% of the times means that you don’t care about the girl you’re saving.
Being called a hero is cool, but saving someone just to be called one is not.
Now, my understanding of the white knight personality is that they seek out people to rescue. But in my case, I never went looking for women who needed to be saved.
I never saw these women as being in need of any help, certainly not when I first began pursuing them.
I guess my question is whether it's possible to fall into that white knight mode of thinking even if you're not deliberately looking for people to rescue? think there are too many factors and variables to make sweeping assumptions about some of these situations. These unique dynamics, such as child/ren from a previous relationship or mental illness, doesn't, shouldn't, imply these individuals are in need of rescuing, especially when the parties involved are in stable and supportive environments.
But the times have changed, and so have the rules of dating.That’s because bad guys don’t do any of that stuff that guys with the white knight syndrome do.Sure there are some girls you seen on those pictures of Chinese girls that crave to be saved and to have a man in shiny armor come rescue her. That may be the end of a fairy tale, but that’s never the end of a real life story.In the 21st century, you don’t have to fight dragons, ride horses or murder other fellas to date Chinese girl.All you need to be successful at dating Chinese girls is simply stop trying too hard to impress a modern Chinese woman.